We are very different. I was spanked growing up. He wasn’t. It’s the reason we argue. He tells me I’m emasculating, I turn cold when he tries to express his feelings. I tell him his mother babied him as a child, nothing I do is ever good enough because she gave him everything.
In counseling, I admit to contacting my ex-fiancé. He was raised by a single father quick with his fists. But I have brothers, I know how to fight, and I figured I’d have a better chance of winning than versus an overbearing mother.
But he’s heartbroken, and it’s the first time I’m happy to see him cry. I tell him I canceled at the last minute, I never slept with him. We leave the office arm in arm, and I believe we can make this marriage work, I shouldn’t give up so easily when things get hard.
I plan to wear pink lace under my blouse and pencil skirt to work tomorrow.
When I come home in the evening, hungry for his touch, I find his mother in my kitchen, cooking his favorite meal, complaining about her son being all skin and bones because he doesn’t have a woman who can fry him a good pork chop.
© 2016 Nortina Simmons
Lol. Smh Mama’s boys appeal to the mom is some of us.. sad but true.. but I only have 2 boys didn’t sign up for a grown 3rd. Duces up.
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Jeez Louise! Please show Mother the door!😞
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Right! Let him go, Mama, or he’ll never grow up.
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😉
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Both of them would be out of my house–the husband and his mama.
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Right! Ain’t nobody got time for all that!
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Gah, I have no patience for mama’s boys. Huh uh.
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Neither do I. To the left!
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Ouch! This relationship needs LOTS of work. Great take on the prompt and very interesting story 🙂
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Thanks! Mom definitely has to learn to let go or son will never leave her bosom… but I suspect that’s what she wants. 🙂
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Sad but true! They both need to learn better ways of dealing their emotions. Calling an ex and moving your boyfriend to tears is a bit much.
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